Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Pride against prejudice

A couple of things inspired me to write this. First was Lyka's post on the movie Milk. Second was the coming first Pride March in Hong Kong this Saturday. Third was because a friend of mine urged me to write about Pride.

But at the end, it is because I am gay.

Pride is a deadly sin and so they said. But if you've taken beatings once too many, it is liberating.

When I think of Pride, I think of celebration. I haven't been in a Pride March for it was only in Hong Kong did I come out. But anybody who's seen Queer as Folk or just knows how to browse the internet will have seen the rainbow of colors decorating floats and marchers in all the Pride events in the world.

When I think of Pride, I think of men and women – homosexuals and heterosexuals – who, in their own ways, have strived to make this world a place where gays need not live in fear. Of groups like Progay Philippines who have endeavored to make homosexuality a matter that should not only be discussed in hushed whispers or within the walls of the academe. Of the likes of Jonjon whose case has shown that reasons abound for such marches.

When I think of Pride, I think not only of individual pride on who I am, how I turned out to be and how I will still be. Beyond this is the collective pride in the community whose struggles have seen highs and lows but still standing. There may be differences in opinions and various debates even among us but still, the common cause against discrimination and prejudices and destroying the myths on homosexuality remains.

Lyka asked how far have we gone since the time of Harvey Milk? If I may dare add, how far are we willing to go?

I know that you cannot live on hope alone. But without it, life is not worth living. And you, and you and you gotta give them hope. – Harvey Milk

The Pride March may only be for one day and, in fact, for only two hours. But the pride and hope that it gives may last for a lifetime.

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On a different but related note, tomorrow is the International Human Rights Day. Allow me to share this video of the human rights situation in the Philippines. Nothing that I may say can equal the message that the images here evoke.



6 comments:

Lyka Bergen said...

Sadly, the real Lyka has no Pride. But.... its time. It's the absolute now.

Kung ano man ang pinaglalaban mo, wag maging reluctant. It's Now na talaga! Katulad mo Jericho, i salute you for your fight. Kung ano man yun.

We should see Victory in our time.

KRIS JASPER said...

Be proud that you feel proud, echo.

USA has elected a black president....

Gloria has lived in MAlacanang for nearly a decade...

After getting overdosed, I am still alive....

that means anything is possible.

Jase/"Gayzha" said...

Pride Rice please !!!

The Zen Bitch said...

sa true lang, ang LGBT movement sa pilipinas, while exuberant kumpara sa ating asian neighbors, ay di masyadong united... but i think this is not entirely bad for the movement... kasi it just shows na there is diversity within the LGBT community... as if naman homogenous ang mga strights, di ba? the challenge is to be able to work together in spite of this divergence...

kuwento ka tungkol sa pride march jan sa HK ha? kasali ba ang HK disneyland?

Kiks said...

Bukas na ang Pride Maaaarch!

FerBert said...

tulad nga ng sabi ni manager Krisjasper; Be proud that you feel proud.. :D